Wow — you’re delightfully deep. New follower. 😄
The joint origin of “valence” & “equivalence” is interesting. We make all sorts of equivalences that display the flaws in our maths, highlighting our blind spots.
You begin by addressing inner vs outer, then jump from that diving board into the infinite sea of perspectives always available to us which most seldom consider.
We don’t generally perceive the lenses through which we view, which leads to confusion & misunderstanding. While sorting them all out would be grand, it’s hardly likely, yet just realizing they exist is a huge step in a great direction. Most might say, “in the right direction,” but “right” depends entirely on our chosen lens/perspective, making it too abstract to be a useful word.
Does it feel good to Heart? Is it enjoyable to our deeper self/Self? Then it’s right, but only for us. Others get to make their own choices. 😆
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