Navigating Judgment & Blame

“These eyes, thru which I hoped to see God, are the eyes thru which God sees me” Rainbow Eye, Youtuber

one has made it through life without blaming others for something. That’s just life in the Matrix. Call to mind something you blame someone else for doing or saying, some terrible circumstance where you hold others at fault, & let’s look into that

from an uplifting perspective.

Heart & the mind don’t see anything the same way — nothing. So, let’s settle into Heart to look into the workings of the typical Matrixed mind we all have to whatever extent. For starters, to blame anyone or anything is to play the victim. Heart sees this — so can we when that’s our choice.

Abraham-Hicks Daily Quote — 2017/12/25

“We are not pointing any fingers, because there is no blame or judgment from where we are standing. But we have to say to you that we are all part of all that occurs.”

Excerpted from Los Angeles, CA on 1/31/99

Our Love
Esther (Abraham and Jerry)

Holding others at fault for something you experienced is to abdicate responsibility for your own life. Everything that comes our way is for our ultimate benefit — so says Heart. If it doesn’t seem so in the moment, then it will, later on. We, the Light Beings, are shifting into this perspective.

When we wish harm on another, we’re actually wishing that on ourself. This is the Heart perspective from our ultimate unity in/as the One. Any good happening to another is also happening to us.

The oneness of Heart completely alters any experience, any scene we view.

Abraham-Hicks Daily Quote — 2017/12/22

We would never move forward in the face of negative emotion. There are many people who would teach you otherwise. They say you’ve got to face fear to get over it. And all they do is desensitize themselves to the point that they get themselves into situations where they have no idea what’s going on, and the end of them comes rather abruptly… And then everyone calls them brave.”

Excerpted from San Diego, CA on 2/7/04

Our Love
Esther (Abraham and Jerry)

Emphasis mine


Some have so aligned themselves with darkness that they’re going down, yet it’s their actions, not them, not us, taking them down. It’s their actions being judged if you will. Since that’s their chosen course, they’re also choosing to go down with the dark ship. We’re not doing that to them, they are, so let’s step back.

Source has all of this well in hand, both through its Cosmic Laws & through its Beingness as Love. Would we but step back & let Universe deal the cards, we would witness them getting their just desserts.

We have no need to punish & kill out of rage or hate. The best possible outcome is for those aligned with Source to be danced into that, absent vengeance or malice. (One day we’ll make such choices, consciously, in full alignment.)

It’s not what we do, but how we do it that counts. Justice is meant to be delivered blindfolded, with an impartial hand. Justice is a natural mechanism of Creation, well able to operate on its own. Boundaries & defenses are natural, too. Heart sets high standards, & those who don’t align with them are writing their own ticket, choosing another course.

Let’s focus on the deeds, with Love for the lost ones committing them. Let us hope & trust that all misguided beings will one day awaken. They’re charting a terribly difficult course, so let’s not join them in that, lest we go down (vibrationally) with them.

When we wish to kill or harm another, we join them in the lower frequencies, thus choosing to remain wed to duality. (Boy, this is a hard one to write. Letting Heart lead is the only way, as I wouldn’t have chosen to go here.) We are not at fault in any of this, but our chosen perspective may be lacking. As we shift into triality we’ll see it that way, from the wiser perspectives born of Love.


We are Beings of Love, even though it doesn’t always feel that way. As we choose to take responsibility for the self & all aspects of our journey our vision shifts, radically. “It’s not easy,” is a mental perspective, & true from that view. Are we identifying with the chess piece on the 3D board, our outer persona, or with Who we really are?

From Heart, that’s pretty easy to spot.

There are legitimate times when any civilization must defend itself, its right to exist & to chart its own course. Some will die. We don’t whitewash this, calling it a new birth (though it is), lest that be but a convenient excuse. We don’t use neat slogans to blame anyone or anything when Heart is in control. We are danced.


Two people can do or say the same exact thing for different reasons, one of them from Heart, the other from mind. They may deserve different judgments, which they would receive if our courts really upheld Justice & acted in Wisdom. It’s when we limit ourselves to mental reasoning that we go off course.

All should be treated equally under the law, yes. What that means differs, depending on our perspective. Do you recall when Solomon, presented with two women claiming the same child, ruled that the child should be cut in two, half given to each one? What kind of a crazy judgment was that?!

Wisdom was acting, there, for he knew the true mother would not allow it, would surrender her child, instead. What looked like a heinous judgment turned out well in the end, when the true mother relinquished the child, only to have it returned to her. The mind knows nothing of true Justice, true judgment.

Heart always takes the higher-vibrational way.

We can do that, too. It’s ever & always about personal choice, our use of Free Will. Just as people questioned Solomon’s judgment, they will question us, not understanding, not yet seeing through the eyes of Heart. It shouldn’t matter to us what others say or do when the true Arbiter of it all abides within each breast. Choosing to align with That, as Source-in-form, will determine our path.

We are answerable to no one but Source, friends.


Even at great personal cost, let us refuse the unworthy command. As we pull ever farther out of the Matrix we’ll find ourselves speaking & acting in ways most will not understand. So what? We contain all that we see, projected before us on the 3D game board. Let us act & interact ever in our/Our best interests, in Love.

Even if we don’t yet recognize all as the One, that realization awaits our awakening. Life here is ever pregnant with challenges. How we’ll choose to see them is crucial. What perspective will we adopt? We can’t rightfully judge/understand another without Source at the helm. Even then, we may not understand what transpires. Heart is well able to lead us on, even blind.

We can’t even wisely judge our OWN path, our own life, much less another’s.

May we all soon find our way into Heart, whose ways of communion far transcend those of the mind. This inner guidance is felt, is deeply sensed. We lose nothing, even though we forfeit all we own, in service to That to the best of our ability. Honor & Integrity are making their long overdue comeback as humanity’s vision shifts.


“The sun shines on both the just & the unjust, alike” is well said. Source is neutral, not judgmental as some prefer to believe. Love is Love, it is not love, the human version of that, as many already realize. Our walk goes from mental to deeply experiential — an entirely different experience. This, to the extent that we align & allow.

Things will go from bad to worse, deeply challenging for those who occupy the lower frequencies of the mind’s realm. That doesn’t have to be us, friends. We’re empowered to take a whole nother walk. Whenever things get to you, take a Heart break to find your peace restored.

As you persist in this, your peace will morph into Peace.


Words remain inadequate to convey any of this, but I don’t rely on them, knowing the energy shared here will reach the willing Heart. All will be made clear, even if many must await crossing over at physical life’s end to experience it. It is clear right NowHere, so we may enter the new perspective of Heart & find it while still embodied.

We are beings of energy, of consciousness, not these forms that we wear. Realizing this, experientially, comes as we continue to awaken. Meanwhile, we can have the proverbial faith of a mustard, the smallest of seeds, to see us through.

Faith, not in others, not in anything external, but in Source.

Though it will take great strength to take this walk, as Source-in-form we’ve got all that’s required, & more. Let us rest in that as we do our best to live up to our highest vision, to take the walk in Honor & Integrity as Divine Love. Source never lets us down, desiring to Dance us all into a Light beyond measure.

Abraham-Hicks Daily Quote — 2017/01/17

“Make fun of death. We are as dead as it gets, and we are fully aware of this joyous experience. We are with you every time you allow it. We are in every singing bird and in every joyful child. We are part of every delicious pulsing in your environment. We are not dead, and neither will you ever be! You will just get up, one day, and get out of the movie.”

Excerpted from Boulder, CO on 6/11/05

Our Love
Esther (Abraham and Jerry)

Hang-in, friends, the best is ever & always yet to come. 🌈 😉



3:40 pm, Tuesday 2018/01/16, 2nd, Mayan day 10 Riad / Eb

Theresa-Ann Harvey on the awakening trek, seeing everything thru new eyes. Leaving the 4 university degrees & the left brain aside to discover Self as awareness